Problem Gambling Doesn’t Stop for Back-to-School Prep, but Help is Available

As we know, gambling disorders require money to sustain. Overspending beyond our means can create serious issues in many areas of life. For those with families, it can severely damage relationships and strain household finances. The time and energy spent chasing the urge to gamble often come at the expense of quality time with loved ones. Additionally, raising a family—especially with children in school who need supplies—can already be financially demanding, making the consequences of problem gambling even more impactful.

Today’s families face increasing pressure to provide children with the right school supplies, clothing, and sports gear—along with the added costs of private education when that is the chosen path. Many parents work hard to save for back – to – school expenses, but these efforts can be quickly undermined when a problem gambler is in the household.

Even with the best intentions, it can be extremely difficult for someone struggling with gambling to resist the temptation of keeping a hidden stash of money. Often, they may justify using it with the hope of winning more to contribute to the school fund—though this mindset inevitably leads to greater loss. If the family is short on what they need for the supplies, then credit cards are used again with full intention of paying them off. This just digs the hole deeper and deeper until it becomes seemingly impossible to dig oneself out.

If you’re ready and willing to make a change when saving for the new school year, consider opening a dedicated school savings account at your bank. Ideally, this account should only be accessible to the non – problem gambler in the relationship. While mutual agreement isn’t absolutely necessary, having it can lead to better outcomes with less stress and fewer conflicts.

Practicing full transparency not only helps manage finances more effectively but also reduces tension within the household. Arguments over money—especially in front of children—can be distressing and may lead a child to believe they are the cause of the conflict. In turn, they might choose to go without essential items to avoid being a burden, which can lead to discomfort and feelings of inadequacy among peers.

The 888-ADMIT-IT HelpLine provides much needed education and resources for a problem gambler and family members. Call or text anytime to learn about our free Budget Tool that can help when thinking about how to get the finances together for this year and help plan for the future – among hundreds of other resources for gamblers and loved ones in need! The service is multilingual and completely confidential.